Human Identity

The starting point of socializing should be the human identity. Not your political ideology, not your ethnicity or your religion but rather your biology and your personality. As humans we share common origin, common environment in which we live and reproduce, common earth to walk on. Someone would argue "We live in differrent sides, in other areas". So what? Geography may defines a human's life but that does not change the fact that we are humans.

Human's primary need is neither food nor clothing but communication. Communication with other human beings, not necessarily of the same religion, sex or age but with the same interests. If you have common interests then you also have available topics of discussion and thus be able to communicate in the best productive way.

Men will always have army as a common subject of conversation. Those who already served in the army would argue about peacefull times with their friends while the youngsters will want to know how bad is to clean toilets every day. Women on the other hand would talk about their accessories, men, handsome men, gossip about people in general and arrange going out sometime together without any men.

My grand mother used to tell me that "Everywhere you go you will find both good and bad persons. Race, color and religion does not matter". The way people act in certain matters will always be the same. People fall in love the same way, they feel lonely the same way. Everyone would eventually like to have a descendant on this planet. People can be mortaly wounded in the same way because as much as people want to think they are superheroes, they are not.

If you think about it people sitting next to us at the bus or at the library are copletely strangers, even though they are closer to us than anyone else. Proximity between people is not measured by distance alone but with similarity in character and way of thinking as well.